Just celbrated 5 years sober. Two days after my best friend whom i met in rehab was caught in a unforgivable lie. Im heart broken. I just feel lost. I lost my twin sister in a car accident before rehab and this friendship really helped with that grief. Now im dealing with so many emotions and it is hard to cope.
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sounds like there's work to be done here. writing it out (4th step) always helps me
name
the unforgivable act
what it affects ( security, personal relations, s*x relations, ambitions, pride, etc. from BB)
turnaround. where I was wrong/at fault.
looking at things from a totally different angle can be hard/impossible, especially when the sting of resentment is new/fresh
pray. ask God for help (angry man's prayer in BB)
I could tell you stories about me getting betrayed. again and again ( be someone I gave everything to)
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It was a situation ship ish… and the whole time he was sleeping with his ex wife and lied to me
Do you think maybe you dodged a bullet and that someone better is out there waiting if not looking for you?