How do you find sober love? Like completely sober and completely clean? Nothing being used.
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Meetings meet sober people.
Stop looking let it find you
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Wait
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When both people are really doing the work, love will come. It’s out there though. Stay honest, stay healing, and it’ll show up when it’s time. You deserve the kind that feels safe and clean. 
Never been to a meeting
I don't feel comfortable going to one either 
but thank you.
They are out there somewhere, as I continue on in sobriety, I have a feeling I will find more people who are clean and sober. I used to attract heavy drug users and alcoholics, now I attract moderate drug and alcohol users, hahaj I am almost 4 years into sobriety, so there is progress to the people I meet. I won't date anyone in AA because I don't want anything interfering with my sobriety if something goes south in my relationship, so I have faith as I get healthier, the people i attract in my life will be healthier.
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I found it when I wasn't looking and neither was he and it's over now but it was a good 17 years now I'm not interested I'm old and just want to be a crone
This. My wife found me more or less. When I stopped looking so hard she appeared. God is good
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It’s super simple, easy and fun! If you want love, be loving. Do acts of unconditional love and kindness.
I’m here if you ever want to talk