I recently read that trauma is a defense mechanism of the brain that kept a person safe when young. But this sh*t is ridiculous at 50. At work I might work with 10 people 9 of them i get along with and we have a bit of camaraderie but my freaking brain is constantly focus on that 1 mo*****er! That i can seem to get along with. How is this situation threatening to me you freaking Brain! Me against me. As i said before, work in progress.