Im really struggling with my sobriety at the moment my ex wife has said that there is no hope for us. I am so in love with her and Im not sure how to move on…
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There is no right way to move on. It’s heartbreaking. Honor those feelings and know that you can get through it even though it’s hard.
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This is the perfect time to focus on yourself. It isn't selfish to care more for yourself than others...it's self care...just know that what is meant for you will find you or come back to you...for now enjoy the extra free time that had involved your ex wife and use that space/time to pay closer attention to your present self and what you love and desire.
Change is possible, give yourself time and grace to grieve...but don't get stuck there. Hope all works out.
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Sorry that you're going through this Alec. 
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If you want her back change yourself I didn’t and f’d myself 
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Your stronger then you think. I was in the same boat 7 months ago, my husband wanted a divorce, sick in tired of me saying " I'm sorry " then about 3 months into my sobriety he seen the change and slowly got back into texting, calling and then he came to visit and after that noticed my actions and the rest is history. I'm di thankful & greatful for the program and God. The pieces of the puzzle are starting to come together. So there's hope! Stay positive. Pick up that 1,000lb phone and call your sponsor. I'll pray for you
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I suggest staying sober and changing your life. Once your self esteem is strong you’ll be back in the drivers seat. Your perception will change and you might not even want your wife back. Who knows?! But you gotta do this for yourself.
If you stay clean and really do the work, every aspect of life gets way better.