My fiancee is still using and doesn't want to see

Recovery
#1

My fiancee is still using and doesn't want to see me while I'm sober. He is freaking my great lying and firing things he says he will be here w me tmrw pls pray for him his name is haired

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#2

Be well Sami

#3

@sami484491 it sounds like you're going to:

A) call off or at least hold off on any future plans with this individual.

B) step away and let them self-destruct. (In other words... RUN and save yourself first.)

C) step away completely, point them in the right direction to recovery and hope they get it .

D) save yourself first, protect your sobriety, and do all of the above.

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#4

Your sobriety is #1

#5

RUN… Save yourself. Codependency is another form of the disease. How long do you think your sobriety will last with a partner who is using? You have to be willing to let that relationship die or you both might die.