My husband and have been on the rocks. Not even about my addiction, even tho it doesn't help, but about my ex and my son from my ex. Even though I had been using and he is a normie, we both have been struggling to see things from the other person perspective. We both are selfish. I just ask for prayers for our marriage. We have 3 boys we need to take care of.
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Just hang in there make sure to let him know about things he can learn about people with addictions. Some just don't understand. I will be praying for you 
And also remember in recovery we celebrate what normal folk do daily. Always two sides. I had to see it from my wife’s point of view and learn that quick, I couldn’t understand why she wasn’t as impressed with my recovery as I am. Now she’s my biggest support.
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Thank you. I keep encouraging him to learn about it. He just doesn't seem to have any interest in learning about it. 
Thank you that helps
Well I dealt with that and I succeeded with others help I sought out people who do understand and if you need help look please cause you are worthy of it just as I am with or with out I still moved on. Some will see the change some still don't trust and never will you need to live your life 
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To give your self a real chance at recovery you have to be selfish if he is not %100 behind your being sober and also you need to look at people and places and things that make you use and get them out of your life love your children love your self care about you and honestly making a list of things that stress you out to the point you use and see if you honestly need the people and places and things
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