My name is Jess. Im new to this, and any advice or just a few words would be great

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My name is Jess. Im new to this, and any advice or just a few words would be great.

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#2

One day at a time

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#3

I'm new to this app as well but recently celebrated 1 yr clean. A lot of hard work. I've been struggling with addiction my entire adult life. I am 60 yrs old with a year clean. I had put together clean time a number of times only to eventually relapse. I have learned so much about myself over the years and this time around I was able to do some things differently. Clean time and Recovery are 2 very different things. Today I have a year+ of Recovery and it feels Great!! Feel free to reach out to me any time you need or simply want to!!

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#4

Share as much or as little as you feel comfortable. Find out what best fits. Sometimes just reading the comments and seeing a bit of encouragement from everyone can be so helpful!

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#5

I need this up too cuz I just moved to Iowa. I have 15 years, also to relapses in that time. I'm also 64 years old. And if I didn't get sober I don't think I would be here but through the grace of God I am yeah there's ups and downs in this but being sober I would take on one of my best days in an addiction because it wasn't a good day. Hang in there share get a sponsor or at least get on here and people can answer you back and help you out when you are in need. It is hard work but it's worth it. Always your friend Margie

#6

Thank you. I'm here for you as well.

#7

I walked into a store today and really wanted to buy alcohol. And I did. But I haven't drank it.

#8

It's just sitting there in a bag. And it's frustrating.

#9

I'm 34.

#10

Don't forget to look in the mirror and congratulate yourself on seeking help and getting sober. It ain't easy. Then make a plan. Here it is... take one day at a time. Don't drink today and make a good plan to stay sober tomorrow.
I am almost 2 years sober after a lifetime of trying. It sounds too simple but it works...
That's where ya start, and lean on folks here for good advice and fellowship.
Welcome to the looney bin.

#11

I've maintained. And am still trying.

#12

If anyone is out there.

#13

Breathe, and enjoy your body healing as you leave the slavery of addiction behind.

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#14

Been there. Get out for a walk. Breathe.
Think about how you’ll feel tomorrow if you drink it. Pray if you’re so inclined.

#15

Don’t give up on yourself your worth it live your life to the fullest I know you can get to that place where you feel content :blush: and things will start to change for the better keep going :pray:t3::blush:

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Hi Jessie. What type of advice or words are you looking for!
Here is a piece of advice..... Don't wear your socks out in the rain.
A few words.. if you stand on the toilet you'll be high on pot..
Please elaborate as to what you're seeking.

#18

How do you stay on the path?

#19

I seek freedom.

#20

Jessie... I take it that you've referring to the path of sobriety.
If that is what you are referring to it's pretty simple as long as you're willing to go to any length to achieve it.
If you are willing I'll be more than happy to help you. That is IF you are willing.

#21

Best way i can describe it is u cant keep opening the same door expecting a differnt result
Open ur mind to new ideas in staying sober
Change your perspective
Dont be afraid to reach out for help
Learn to notice even the small things that trigger you or could trigger u and do your best to intercept those things

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