My Son who hasnt spoken to me in 7 months

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My Son who hasnt spoken to me in 7 months due to drinking had his Son earlier. I found out through someone else and my heart is aching

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#2

That is a deep hurt and nobody would blame you for feeling crushed today. Rebuilding trust with our kids takes time, but staying sober is the only thing that gives you a chance. Keep working your program and let your actions do the talking.

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Thank you Chrissy. Much appreciated. Iā€™m not going to drink!!!

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I've been in the same shoes with my daughter I haven't been a part of our life since she was 2 years old I just now reunited with her when she turned 22 and I'll tell you without God my recovery past and rebuild of my daughters and I relationship will never be possible it's a hard and painful struggle but with all the faith in God and hard work it will happen if you prove to him that you're trying and never give up that's key never giving up I found myself giving up too much inactive addiction and now that I've been sober a year and 7 months and have the connection I have with my daughter and God it's worth it everything is worth it cuz now I have a relationship with my kid that I've only dreamed about and it's all because of God

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Thank you Jeremy. Your words are appreciated and helpful. I do pray to God daily and will continue to do so. I know that he will come around but I suppose I want it right away-like everything else in my Life.

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