Need Advice

Recovery
#1

Ive made a hard effort to remove alcohol in my life during 3 pregnancies and nursing… amd for a couple years prior to that as i needed to focus on school.

Recently, i have gone through a divorce and i have developed a poor relationship with alcohol the last 3 years.

I have made the effort and commitment to be sober but my girlfriend is too hurt and doesnt believe i can do it.

How can i show her im working the steps and taking it seriously?

#2

For myself the BIG discovery is it’s not about what anyone else is doing or not doing. Just as Bill and Bob found they couldn’t get anyone drunk and they couldn’t get anyone sober (Lois, Bills wife) pointed out that they were staying sober by helping others. I had to bring the focus back on my own recovery and do it for me.