Not even 3 days into the new year ; and I quit everything even weed and my emotions are everywhere one minute I’m good the next I’m snapping on my wife for no reason ; seriously she’s my rock and yet here I am shooting at her idk anymore ; drugs destroyed everything good in my life and it seems like quitting even weed is gonna lose me my wife wth
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Detoxing is the worst. I went to a detox center both times. My marriage was on the rocks as well. I am definitely not saying you need to go somewhere. But I would find a support system. This group is a good one, there is AA and NA, an IOP will give you tools like a rehab stay but you can sleep at home and still work. Stay strong and do the best you can for you and everything else will come together.
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Take a breath. You are 3 days in.. that’s HUGE! As Chris said detoxing is not a fun time. Right now, just focus on healing and not using. Keep hydrated and make sure you eat. Fixing relationships comes later… there is a reason it is step 9. You can not tell a loved one you are gonna get sober as much as show them. Get into a program asap. AA/NA saved me. And it gave me the tools needed to save my marriage and family. Download the app “meeting guide” it will give you the times and locations of meetings based off your GPS. It takes time man. Patients is not something that comes easy but you can learn it. Good luck man