I’m a father to an amazing human being. 2 of them actually, but today I’m speaking of my oldest. They is a loving, caring, and passionate person. They are going thru a lot. As a parent, I’m going thru a lot. Learning to hold space and support my child, while maintaining some balance and sanity so that I can stay sober can be quite challenging. If there’s anyone in a similar situation, and looking to chat or find some support, please get in touch with me.
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fam here… let me know how I can help Lee
Hey Lucas! My kid got arrested today while protesting at The Capital Building earlier today. He’s out now, and everything is ok. I’ve got lots of mixed emotions…and fear, as I sit back in my powerlessness over so much. I just want to see my kid happy and healthy. I do have a little support group to talk to, but I’m always open to more. Plus, I’d like to be able to offer some support for other parents that may be going thru a similar situation.
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I relate. Balancing Parenthood and my overall mental health can be challenging, at times. I love my children, so much so that it has the ability to trigger anxiety & fear. I'm taught not to live in fear, but to live in grace, as I acknowledge all that I have to be grateful for. I began writing daily gratitude lists again yesterday, as we well as 5 to 6 self-care goals. When I feel burdened by the weight of motherhood, I try to chip away at my insanity by letting go of that which I have no control of. At times, I recognize the best I can do is be a positive example, worth following. Other times, I recognize the need to fight for them, strategically & fiercely. Meditation often helps me to filter my feelings & accept my abilities (or lack thereof). 
I hope this brings you a degree of comfort & support. Parenting is, by far, the most difficult job I've ever known.
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