I’m not really at a point where I want to drink over this, it’s more annoying and disrespectful. So my boyfriend called me yesterday at 5pm completely plastered. I’m getting over a severe stomach flu so I’m already not feeling well. He makes rude comments about our past and hangs up on me. I wasn’t in the mood to argue, not that I really ever am but I especially felt sick and uninterested. So I stop reacting and continue taking care of myself. I eventually let him know what he did and he decided to leave me alone for the night while getting drunk. I don’t understand why I’m linking this to my sobriety so much but I feel like it was extremely disrespected. Not sure what to do with this.
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Seems like you have to make a tough decision if you want to be sober
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Talk to him when he sobers up and tell him how you feel- communication is key and so is your life.
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If you want to stay sober and he doesn’t, he Atleast has to respect your decision. In my humble opinion you both need to sit down and set some boundaries if you are serious about staying together.
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He wants you to be miserable with him, which is selfish af.
For your sobriety, an ultimatum needs established for him; join you in sobriety and go through the journey together or its Ova!
My opinion obviously....I've been on both sides of this issue. It never works if one of you are drinking: I've dragged my girl at time back in and I've been dragged back in by gf. You need to focus on yourself and you're well-being.
Good luck...I do not envy that position.
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