People pleasing

I myself don't like confrontation so on so many different occasions I just went with whatever so there wouldn't be a confrontation. Whether it's cuz I wanted to be accepted or I just didn't want to upset no one I felt like a complete burden all the time. Now it's time to make sure that I come first I'm not being selfish it's something that's very important I have to make sure that all my needs are met. I have to save myself because nobody is coming to save me

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Personally, i think that it's OK to be selfish when it comes to recovery. If that means if YOU have to change the people, places and things, then YOU do that. No one else is going to recover for you.

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Thanks for posting that Jennifer. I am the same way and really needed to hear that today.

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Absolutely great mind set,I love it,and yes you got to be alone warrior sometimes but that's alright.

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I as well needed to hear that! Ty!

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Of course. I'm trying to be honest so that the work I'm putting in really counts. Man I gotta do it for me cause NO ONES COMING TO SAVE ME. an that's ok.

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I'm so content when I'm alone lately. Before it was ment as a form of punishment. Yet I get to actually focus and process my thoughts

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No problem Mrs.Ann. have a good day

I absolutely get it Jennifer,I've done the alone process for way to Long now and there is the pros and cons to it all,keep up the beautiful work.

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Jordan I greatly appreciate the fact that you can relate

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