Really having a hard time my mom just talks me

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Really having a hard time my mom just talks me that i haven't been there for my kids in ten years and u have been my oldest was just living with me a few years ago instead of being a positive support in my life she's being very negative to me and in front of my kids and it's pushing me to say f it i don't have any where else to stay and i don't have a job and have been rant getting hard to get one i live in a very small town any advice/suggestions are greatly appreciated

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#2

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#3

It is a picture of Let Them. I will try to type it

#4

Let them

Let them be upset
Let them judge you
Let them misunderstand you
Let them gossip about you
Let them ignore you
Let them be right
Let them doubt you
Let them not like you
Let them not speak to you
Let them run your name in the ground
Let them make you out to be the villain
Whatever it is that people want to say about you β€œLET THEM”
Kindly step aside and LET THEM

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#5

π‘―π’Š π‘ͺπ’šπ’π’•π’‰π’Šπ’‚, 𝑰 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’˜π’‰π’‚π’• π’šπ’π’– π’Žπ’†π’‚π’. 𝑰𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒐𝒇 π’Žπ’š π’Žπ’π’Ž π’•π’‰π’π’–π’ˆπ’‰ π’Šπ’• π’˜π’‚π’” π’Žπ’š 𝒐𝒍𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕 π’…π’‚π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’•π’†π’“. 𝑰 π’π’Šπ’—π’†π’… π’˜π’Šπ’•π’‰ 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒐𝒓 5 π’šπ’†π’‚π’“π’” 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒉𝒆 π’˜π’π’–π’π’… π’ƒπ’“π’Šπ’π’ˆ 𝒖𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒍𝒐𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’‰π’π’˜ 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒂 π’Žπ’π’Ž 𝑰 π’˜π’‚π’”. 𝑺𝒉𝒆'𝒅 𝒅𝒐 π’Šπ’• 𝒐𝒏 π’”π’π’„π’Šπ’‚π’ π’Žπ’†π’…π’Šπ’‚. 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒕𝒐 π’ƒπ’π’π’„π’Œ 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒐𝒓 π’Žπ’š π’π’˜π’ π’Žπ’†π’π’•π’‚π’ 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉. 𝑰'𝒅 π’ˆπ’ 𝒕𝒐 𝒂 π’Žπ’†π’†π’•π’Šπ’π’ˆ π’‚π’π’Žπ’π’”π’• π’†π’—π’†π’“π’š π’π’Šπ’ˆπ’‰π’•, π’”π’π’Žπ’†π’•π’Šπ’Žπ’†π’” π’•π’˜π’ 𝒂 π’π’Šπ’ˆπ’‰π’• 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒐 π’ˆπ’†π’• 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’‚π’˜π’‚π’š π’‡π’“π’π’Ž 𝒉𝒆𝒓 π’‚π’•π’•π’Šπ’•π’–π’…π’†π’”. 𝑰𝒕'𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 π’†π’‚π’”π’š. 𝑰'π’Ž 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 π’Šπ’‡ π’šπ’π’– π’˜π’‚π’π’• 𝒕𝒐 π’•π’‚π’π’Œ/𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒕, π’˜π’‰π’‚π’•π’†π’—π’†π’“ π’šπ’π’– 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅. 𝑺𝒆𝒏𝒅 π’Žπ’† 𝒂 π’‡π’“π’Šπ’†π’π’… 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕 π’Šπ’‡ π’šπ’π’– π’˜π’‚π’π’•. π‘·π’“π’‚π’šπ’Šπ’π’ˆ 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒆𝒅 π’Žπ’† 𝒕𝒐𝒐. 𝑱𝒖𝒔𝒕 π’Œπ’†π’†π’‘ π’“π’†π’Žπ’Šπ’π’…π’Šπ’π’ˆ π’šπ’π’–π’“π’”π’†π’π’‡ 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 π’ƒπ’†π’Šπ’π’ˆ 𝒔𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 π’˜π’Šπ’π’ π’ˆπ’†π’• π’šπ’π’– π’˜π’‰π’‚π’• π’šπ’π’– π’˜π’‚π’π’• 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’Žπ’π’“π’† 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 π’šπ’π’– 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 π’Šπ’Žπ’‚π’ˆπ’Šπ’π’†π’….

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#6

I just have one because I’m dealing with family issues myself right now, but this is your mom. She may be hard on you because she knows where you are and she knows the potential that you have. She knows that she wants her daughter to be better than she was. I suggest that you sit down and you have a woman to woman talk with your mother and let her know how you feel let her know that you are trying and if that doesn’t work I suggest you find sober living situations or find you a a better women’s shelter to go to. I don’t know if I’m saying anything that will help you, but I do know that giving up is not the thing to do you can say you want to say effort all day long, but is that really the truth because it’s not about your mom it’s about you being a mom and being there for your children and I think that’s more important than you getting your daughter to your mom so I hope I’ve kept out if you need a message send me a message and we could talk 101 if you would like

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#7

I understand completely, as I was living with my niece for a Lil over a year. She was so negative towards me and disrespectful.

I held my tongue bc I didn't have any where else to go. I believe Yah God allowed me to go through that to surrender

to Him and humbled
myself. . I was bad off in my addictions but when I surrendered my life change, I made a 180 degree turn around gave my life over to Jesus that's when I started healing in every aspect of my life spiritually, emotionally and mentally. I still was receiving cruel treatment but it just made me the person I am today.

I no longer live with her but I was in perfect peace when Yah God came into my life.

I haven't been to any rehab are classes just having faith in Yah and allowing him to guide my steps work, I'm almost 10 months clean and sober. HalleluYah hope this helps :pray: :relaxed:

I was

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#8

I'm in adive addiction

#9

I'm ok ..I think?I fall off the rails every to 10 days...I binge it all.wat u got?

#10

Rehab helped me tremendously i learned to self forgive letting go of a lot of shame and guilt i learned my self worth and how to love myself again I started to get my confidence back i never stayed sober very long if I even stayed sober until I wanted it for myself and started to love myself and realized that me and my life are worth living and staying sober for and I fight to stay sober for those things along with for my 2 daughters nieces nephews and family I don't want to go backwards leaving my kids and family to worry about me when God calls me home I want to be sober have a better relationship with my daughters and family and not be alone if u would like u can send me a friend request and message me any time