I am only in my 2nd week of recovery how did others fight the thoughts or urges especially when your bored
I got a home group, sponsor and worked The Steps.
In person AA/NA meetings really helped. Getting sponsored and doing the 12 steps thoroughly helps tremendously.
Boredom is not something I can do. I get constructive in my sobriety.
I’m here if you want to talk or have any questions
Micro dose yourself with happiness...like .. music, walking, silly dance, make a greatful list. Pause . Learn to sit with your discomfort...it's your body fighting to heal. I like to go to YouTube and find videos on coping skills ..feed your brain a different substance
Just like everyone said, meetings, take phone numbers and call someone. Don't worry if you think you are going to "bother" someone, that's what we are here for!
Find a meeting find a friend in recovery that likes to do things get numbers and most importantly pray like your life depends on it and always remember that you are welcome here
I started diamond art! It works really well for redirecting the brain. It keeps hands busy as well. I have anxiety as well and it relaxes the anxiety as well. I think of my positive achievements since Sept 24, 2025 was my clean date
Remembering why I got sober and not wanting to disappoint my kids family and myself...... took me many years to get back what I lost long ago which was everything I just said.. . Not willing to lose them again or lose myself again
Yes definitely meetings I’m 3yrs sober never thought I could do it, therapy and staying busy I taught myself to one hand typing,crochet which is now my other addiction a lot cheaper lol also went back to school for free there’s so many programs u can do for free
The one's that need you will wait for you. Just do you.
You're going to hear do 90 meetings in 90 days A LOT. Mostly, cuz it's a good suggestion. 12 step groups can be a bit clique-ish, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Get connected. Find people that will, organically, keep your mind off it. Use your phone list. You have to be proactive if you want to stay clean. I mean, you don't HAVE to be. You can be as passive as you like. It does tend to make life drag a bit.
Do online zoom na groups, TikTok groups find a hobby or journal anything but board, board can get you in trouble!! U got this know ur worth!!
Find some else to obsess about that provides a healthier escape