Tuesdays I have a zoom Relapse Recovery group. Today's topic was having giver syndrome and setting boundaries. I was married to a narcissist for 30 years which began my descent into drinking. Subsequent to that I was in a 6 year relationship where I allowed myself to fall into the syndrome again. That led to relapse. I now have 11 months of sobriety and (perhaps) am finally learning to love myself first. Keep working!
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I’ve found Adult Child recovery in addition to SLAA super helpful in untangling my messy interpersonal stuff.