In Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), "Rule 62" is a famous piece of recovery wisdom that states: “Don't take yourself so darn seriously.” It is not an official rule, but rather a cultural touchstone detailed in the book Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.
The Story Behind Rule 62
The Overambitious Plan: An early AA group wanted to build a massive multi-service center featuring a hospital, club, and rehab facilities.
The 61 Rules: To manage it, the group created 61 strict rules and regulations, bickered over control, and ultimately ran the project into the ground.
The Punchline: Realizing their mistake and absurdity, the group's leader sent a note back to the New York AA office sharing the failure, accompanied by a small card reading: Rule #62: Don't take yourself so darn seriously.
What It Means in Recovery
Humility over Ego: It reminds individuals that rigidity, perfectionism, and self-importance can threaten sobriety.
Permission to Laugh: Humor and self-compassion are viewed as vital tools to avoid burnout or emotional heaviness.
Tradition Four: The concept connects to group autonomy and the freedom to make mistakes as long as it does not harm the whole.