What is it that keeps one from relying solely on their own reliance to solve their own problems? I struggle with it daily, some days are better than others. Why not seek help from something else or some other means? I know if I was still in my disease I was limited to what I thought and possibilities of overcoming anything. It has been some time since my last drink or use. I'm more open to looking outward for guidance and help. However I've gotten help has been best by utilizing other resources outside of myself, whether emotional, mental or spiritual. What guides you or helps you grow?
I use the AA and ACA programs, then I find the places that my addictions hide, behaviors or personality defects and learn about them, explore them and use all outside resources I can to tame them. I keep myself surrounded be people that have similar experiences and use their knowledge and try their methods to get well. Really it willingness to try and follow through with the methods that work for me. I’ve had great successes with this mindset