First work on your self…… That is what your sobriety is about and then you can work on recovering your family
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I still have the family that matters, my kids. So yeah I’m gonna work on myself and staying sober for them.
bro I was in a marriage for 15 years like that the woman just didn't care try to put me in prison every chance she got ,telling you best thing that I ever did was get away from that chick I always went out and used thinking that I'll show her you know I'm going to go get high, she didn't care it just hurt me and my kids so my suggestion run!!!
Im not gonna run I’m gonna walk.
I understand what you're feeling. The thing about getting a divorce is there's no law that says you have to get it by a certain time. Having said that, if I were in your shoes knowing what I know now I wouldn't make any major decisions for one year. That's based on my own experience. People make major decisions before they get some quality sobriety time and then they look back and wish that they had done things differently.
When we're first recovering from alcohol, our heads are not right. And the only way to truly understand that is to get some quality sobriety time under your belt. If you do this, when you look back you'll understand what I was talking about. This is just from a 63 yr old guy who's been around the block a few times.