So if I drink they will leave me. But if they drink and come home smelling of alcohol it’s ok. How messed up it that’s not sure what to do 
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Right? It’s not fair right? Well life isn’t fair, lol… you know what to do, you’ve been doing it a long time!! I know it’s just nice to vent sometimes, I do it too! And that stuff annoys me too! But I know they are not alcoholics and I am. I can’t just have one and be good with that. I wish it were different for me than for my novia but it isn’t. She put up with all my bad along with my good and now it’s my turn. I guess if I didn’t like my environment I would change it. But at the end of the day I do! And I love being powerful! Powerful over alcohol! And Happy! You just have to power trough it! Go back and read your post from 12 hours ago, you know what to do! 
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A question comes to mind. Do "they" have have a problem with alcohol? If not, do they still treat you good, support you in your recovery and well..... support, love and care for you in general? Are they present in the moment? Are they present in your life? Are they responsible and reliable? Do they communicate and express themselves effectively? Do they listen effectively? There's a lot more questions that can be asked here. Not to sound harsh or anything but then ask yourself all these same questions. If the answer is "No" to most of those questions then it's fair to say there is something that needs to be worked on, on either side. Be very honest and open-minded with all these questions and answers about yourself and them.
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Express how you feel and set a boundary.
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Not supportive one bit. Been there.
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Lol! Good!
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