So, my friend that gets high still keeps inviting me to her house. She texts me and she keeps calling me, and I don't know what to do. She said she supports me, but she gets high in front of me. So what kind of a friend is she?
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Sounds like shes a using buddy. I would steer clear of that invitation. They told me if I sat in the barber 
chair long enough, I would get a haircut.
I need to be around like minded people who do not use drugs or alcohol.
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Sober comes with many goodbyes unfortunately and when they get sober if they get sober maybe reconnect I do not speak with associate with any active drug users or alcoholics it’s setting yourself up for a disaster be careful it’s about your life and your sobriety..live a life that supports the future your building..
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Unfortunately, that is not a friend. I had someone like that in my life not too long ago and the best thing I did was cut her off.
Remember misery loves company…….
A supportive friend wouldn’t sit and use Infront of you it’s time to say goodbye until she’s ready to be sober.
If your really committed to not getting high anymore. It shouldn’t matter that your around people that are doing it. I’m not going to cut off life long friendships and family just because I stopped getting high. I believe that them seeing me being strong and staying strong will inspire them to get straight.