So something just broke my heart, I will hit my 30 days on Tuesday- so if this was 30 days ago I would be drowning myself in vodka crying just being a mess…. Instead I just will cry it out and hopefully feel better soon about it
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Try to focus on the things you will gain from not drinking. Alcohol is cunning and not your friend. Celebrate by buying yourself something with the money you would’ve spent on alcohol the past 30 days! I’m happy for you!
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It’s awesome whether you’re laughing or crying.
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That took a lot of self control the last couple of days! Like a lot!
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And you DID it!!!! That’s awesome!
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Every day you will begin to feel better and become stronger.
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Don’t keep it to yourself. That’s what addiction makes you think you need to do. There must be someone you can connect with to talk about your heartache. Your struggle. Your sobriety. Do. Not. Hold. It. In.
I did talk about it as much as I could with two people I trust. It’s just hard. Like it’s all new. So I’m just all over the place
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Writing works too. Get a pen and a pad and get everything out.
I write all the time I journal and all that
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Meetings will help.
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Hi Diana, a broken heart is the worst Have that cry, even us men cry we just don't like to show it. I am and we are here for you. You will make it through
I am doing 90 90!
Oh I have been crying. Alone. I am trying not to isolate. It seems I can’t be bored, it’s not good. It’s cause when you drink u guess you just go go. I don’t know. I just can’t be bored. And I LOVE music. And like every song is reminding me of this person. But I didn’t drink
No drinks that's great. You will make it through. There is no doubt in my mind. Reach out if you want to talk
Hi Diana. So proud of you. When we get sober life doesn’t get better.. we get better at life! We are here for you. 
