Sober 1 Year & 18 Days

I think I am ready to date . It gets SUPER LONELY, just unsure of how to find the right person for me understanding and judgement free... Anyone got any thoughts on this..

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1 year and 18 days is huge. It makes sense it feels lonely sometimes. You deserve someone who respects your sobriety and your peace, don’t rush it.

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Well thank you for your advice. Well said! Being lonely sucks sometimes not all the time but I just pray God sends me my person. Lol.. I've found that being truly sober is different because it's not the same type of people.. sometimes just feel like a stranger in my own body if that makes sense... But continuing my relationship with the Lord has brought me much confidence and comfort and being able to stand by myself apart from the crowd..

Sounds like you have been Doing a great job of fist being able to fix and love yourself. Now comes the easy part to live someone else. Be patient and the right person will come along but never let them. Take away what you built..

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Ty

Do you go to church or meetings? I have a friend that made a connection in the church he attends, they have similar interests and are very happy together.. they are the cutest couple ever! Not saying you need to jump right in and start trying to find this person at only those places.. they just so happened to meet at a picnic last summer during a function. Good luck to you, and god bless :raised_hands:

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