At my first elementary school function of the year and this one Dad got kinda angry when I refused his home brew. This dude has always kinda been an obnoxious bro but today he was really rude. “Come on bro it’s just a beer it won’t hurt - are you like can’t handle your booze quitter” to which I just said yeah I am.
It didn’t bother me that this happened I felt comfortable saying no and zero shame. It was just interesting that it took 11+ months to find myself in this situation.