Sometimes I think I’m going to die alone. Maybe there

Recovery
#1

Sometimes I think I’m going to die alone. Maybe there isn’t anyone for me.

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#2

Are you involved in anything recovery. Meetings?

#3

Not for a long time now

#4

May I ask why. When in recovery you need people more than ever. It can get very lonely. Please go to a meeting preferably in person, if not zoom and build your recovery network. I am sure there will be someone for you. Just concentrate on recovery first then relationship. Please I lost another friend last Friday. Don’t give up.

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#5

This is a great group! Don’t give up!

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#6

I have no way to a meeting and I have 16 years but time of waiting for. Relationship has long past.

#7

It is. I’m just lonely as I’ve lost six people in the past six months.

#8

I have no way right now but I have an app called in the rooms and attend meetings online

#9

I don’t enjoy zoom

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#10

I totally feel the same way.

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#11

I feel you it’s like I don’t know what to do and dislike admitting it

#12

I knnnow! I hate to admit it to. I do go to meetings. They help a lot. I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Which is probably a good thing. But its like Is there ever going to be
Anyone?

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#13

I stopped dating right around the time the pandemic began in 2019 and have tried to connect with a few here and there but they’re like parasites thinking I exist to support them financially so they can be lazy. I have an income and expect the person I’m with to as well. I’m also into physical fitness and can’t take it when someone complains about their physicality yet does nothing to improve it. I shouldn’t be the only person in the relationship motivated to do something. It takes two to be successful in this life.

#14

If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always gotten.

The person who has the most to do with what happens to you in your life is YOU.

I don't know everything about your situation so I don't want to say too much.

You said you have no way to get to a meeting. I don't know why you don't have a car to get you there. I don't know if you're working or not. If you don't have a car and a job, a relationship is probably the last thing that you need.

Once again, I don't know you personally and I don't know your situation. I'm only going by what you said in your comments above.

#15

I was really hopeful and happy over a relationship i was in only for him to suddenly say he didn’t see himself falling in love . It hurts. I’m here with u

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#16

I only seem to meet superficial women who only care about your status, money and appearance. Not that I lack in those aspects. But when it comes to them being there when it matters most they all prove to be manipulative by making excuses that they use in attempts to make me out to be insensitive to their needs when their needs are being met it’s mine that aren’t.

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#17

Hey Drew I know how it is to be lonely and be with succubus type people. It drains ur soul and ur wallet and u lose hope. I really hope that you don’t give up bc you never know what is meant for you.

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#18

… word ❤️‍🩹🫀

#19

Thank you. I’m not giving up on my recovery I’m merely tired of not having anyone I want to be with who is only here to use me.

#21

This sounds tough, Drew and you definitely make sense. It sounds like you have a genuine heart and a lot to offer to the right person. I’m sort of in a similar place with dating. Thing is, we’ve got to do…something. If we do nothing, we will meet nobody and stay lonely. What about a hobby— like explore a hobby you do now but in a bigger/different way that will allow you to connect with others.

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