Sometimes, understanding someone doesn’t mean the pain stops. It means

Sometimes, understanding someone doesn’t mean the pain stops. It means we see the reason behind their actions, even when it breaks us. Yet, we stay—because love often chooses understanding over blame, and patience over giving up.
But until when?

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Until you need to be true to yourself and your sobriety i guess? If such persons interfere with that.

Until it starts changing you and breaking you. I have lived this situation and it led me to drink more until I was not me. I did not recognise myself anymore.

Thanks for this discussion. I am in need of grace personally, I wish you the best.

When we find true love for ourselves, I think the rest just becomes clearer