Struggling to move forward in my sobriety. I’ve been doing 90/90, but haven’t found a sponsor yet to work the steps. Any suggestions on what to do next or best ways to go about finding a sponsor?
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Try different AA meetings and locations. Start talking to people after the meeting to see if you click. 
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Wot Luis said. Try different meetings. At some the secretary will make a sponsor need/sponsor volunteer announcement, or you can ask the secretary before the meeting starts.
A sponsor isn't necessarily a best friend, just someone who can offer their own experience and advice.
Also, never call your sponsor if you're loaded. Do it beforehand and maybe you won't relapse.
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You could try to find a temporary sponsor for the meantime, hope that helps
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Ask someone to sponsor you that has what you want but more importantly has and does the work. Not everyone does. You have control over that.
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I would recommend looking into a men's meeting. I have found them to be more focused on recovery and sponsorship. I go to both mixed and men's meetings, but my home group is a men's meeting. This group puts a giant focus on sponsorship. They actually ask "Those without a sponsor please raise your hand. Those of you that have worked the steps please introduce yourselves to these people".
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Off to my second meeting today . 2 hrs at gym and walked 3 fukin miles anxiety winning today 
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