Step 4 is making me feel insecure, but my sponsor

Recovery
#1

Step 4 is making me feel insecure, but my sponsor says to keep the faith. Yikes!

#2

I know it's intimidating. You gotta do some major reflection. Do it. Be confident. Be bold. Take this as the opportunity to learn the root causes so you can heal properly. You owe it to you. I know you can do this.

#3

I’m not there yet. I would love to hear how you feel when you finish it.

#4

That is my next step. I feel you

#5

Half way through no bad at all. Its more like 'oh, so that's whats going on' kind of feelings. When I felt God heard and accepted my step 3 prayer I felt valid, and that helps.

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#6

How is step four coming? I guess I am just fearful of being rejected for being so twisted

#8

This is my second time going through the program and I’m trying to do things different this time, my sponsor had me write out my step four and look at the patterns in my behavior and how I react to things

#9

A lot of folk don’t make it past the 4th. Just keep struggling through it like your sponsor says. Keep him close,

#10

Hi

#12

Thanks :blush: You too. Who's ghe Pumpkin in the picture?

#14

Hey Andrew! I’ve been working on my step 4 for the past 5 weeks. I did 80% the first day, then I didn’t look at it for 2 weeks. It does bring up a lot of feelings. Makes me feel kinda blah. Keep pushing thru brother. I’ll try and take my own advice and do the same lol