Still new to this site looking for friends! Married mom of 4! No 13 steppers please
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Happy to be a friend Sativa. I'm Brian, nice to meet you!
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Welcome! What's a 13 stepper, not to sound ignorant I hppe
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It’s someone who comes here with dating in mind so to speak it’s a term used in my area regularly for the men who come to meetings to so to speak prey on a newcomer lady
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People can suck sometimes like this guy on here who wanted me to "watch him" over video chat lol. Dude I'm not that desperate lol. I hope he sees this
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Got it
I thought it meant one who was drinking again
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Hahahahah. 13 step! I love it!! Truly made my morning chuckle!!
Welcome. Consider me a friend!!
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Nice to meet you 
we all do it our own way I got your back!!
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Also just clued into the 13 step 
the world is a weird place full of weirder people lol but welcome
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Welcome Sativa!
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Welcome Sativa. I have to put my 2 cents in… It’s not just the guys that are 13 steppers, I’ve been hit on by women(at least I think their women) on this app. that are here to try and scam guys like myself and that’s all their here for. They try and sell other people’s pictures, they are definitely not here for sobriety. These Spammers are here for your money..
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Agreed and touché
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I don’t go to in person meetings but that happen to me on this app a little over a year ago. I’d only been on for a month or so before I left and deleted my account. I was getting harassed too much, wasn’t worth sticking around.
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I am N O T a gross human trying to hit on anyone here…nasty!
Welcome to the community, Sativa!
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Howdy! Welcome. We're glad you're here.
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I misssssss sober grid so much but yes I had lots of men in my inbox thanks for the warm welcome! Glad to see someone else from sg
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Hate to admit but it’s happened to me
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Likewise
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Me too!! And i love this app!! Helps me get threw my day
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Hang in there mom ……keep striving 
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