Tears of frustration and anger.. I feel I have lost

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Tears of frustration and anger.. I feel I have lost it all and I am a looser

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#2

You are definitely not a loser Allison, your on this support group & ur reaching out for help, I’m here to listen anytime.
So many times I thought I have lost it but you always have to pick yourself back up & start again #onedayatatime

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#4

You can even let others pick you up until you can do it yourself and like many things that are hard, this too shall pass. Non alcoholics have the same problem with their relationship with self too so it’s not just a measure of how well you’re working the program and don’t compare yourself with anyone else.

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#5

I used to feel the same way. You can do this.

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#6

Although we all have probably felt this way a time or two, it will pass... Reach out here make friends and have others to talk to

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#7

We are NOT are mistakes🙏

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#8

Im sorry that you’re having a hard time. I know you can get through whatever life throws your way. Please message me if you need to. Much love.

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#9

How are you feeling today?

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#10

I'm ok. Drinking water and breathing

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#11

Im sorry you’re going through that. Perfectly normal to feel that way….I went through about 10 years of feeling the same way. Over a year sober now. If I can do it I know anyone can. One day at a time.

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#12

I feel the same way, lidmfe is hard, are mistakes do not have to define us. Never give up hope because I promise you can do this

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#13

I’ve got that voice in my head telling me that too. It’s a voice, not a reality. I have type 2 bipolar disorder and normally have manic episodes but my depressive ones suck. Don’t know your health background but you’re in a community where you never have to feel bashful talking about what you’re feeling.

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#16

I'm a loser Allison I'm 45 I thrown my life away. broken good people's hearts in my life and a lot of times it wasn't even my direct desire but it's seems fate would have me bare that cross over and over and over. If I yell it's to much if I stay quiet I'm lacking in normal human ways. If I laugh I'm a POS. if I cry you guessed it a wimp. I question my self about to much to often and wen I had nothing prayer :pray: putting my trust in something bigger then me helped everytime. And miss Allison it worked I saw a light at the end of a tunnel were there were none. Be selfish be all encompassing wen it comes to finding a way to feel like you matter more then them. You will do this you can do this one min at a time turns to one hour turns to one day. Hope this helped. Beautiful name btw.