The biggest change I had was when someone asked me what was the first thing I saw when I looked in a mirror. I thought it was silly but I realized that the words drunk, alcoholic, shitty parent were among the first things I thought when looking at myself. If those were the only things I saw then I knew I was doomed to stay those things. It was then I decided that those were things I was, but not who I am.
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