The last time i relapsed i was abused by my best friend then another friend joked about the abuse. Im a bit traumatized and i feel alone sometimes… im now 3 months sober and i feel as though thats one of the only things i have going for me nonetheless im grateful that i am sober.
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Lily, 3 month sober is huge! Good for you.
Umm those people that abuse us or joke about it, I don’t consider them friends. I consider them sick people and distance myself from them. I made new friends especially in the sober community. We help and support each other unconditionally.
I hope this helps
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Let nothing that happened in the past prevent you from the healing of today...keep going in your recovery, more will be revealed.
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That's an accomplishment I was seven months clean and went through something similar then the next three months was hard I was found Jesus to hold my hand now I'm back clean for three months as well and as long as I give it to Jesus every day I take it day by day! Your doing great!
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Take it one day at a time.
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Abuse isn't a joke chat me up
Agreed! Those are Not friends in any way shape or form. I understand the loneliness. I’ve been feeling like that recently myself. Good for you for 3 months of sobriety after that experience. Despite the loneliness, stay far away from those so called “friends” and keep working for a better life that you deserve with friends who love and respect you.
I hope they are your ex-bestfriend! Congrats on 3 months! Life is tough and people usually disappoint is my experience. Put your faith in something greater and keep going girl!
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Yes i don’t talk to them anymore. Thank you so much
Sexually. So i am traumatized
Hi lily,
I to have been dealing with trauma myself not the same type of trauma but none the less the effects of it all are never easy,I'm never busy to chat and help in whatever way so feel free if you're interested in chatting!
Keep at what your doing . Know that you are appreciated here
Keep close to real people who are doing what you are about and don't allow yourself to be anybodys mat to walk on you have worth and value
No matter if it’s 1 day or 30 years if your still clean and sober it’s a great thing
Congratulations on Your 3 months of sobriety.Hang in there and keep doing the next right thing .My first sponsorer told me to throw my boots under the bed every night and while I am down ther digging them out say a pray while I am still on my knees.And if you are like I was ,I did not think oraying would help but what the heck O was on my knees anyway so probsbly wouldn't hut .It worked for me 48 years ago and still I pray for God's help and guidance
Lily we are hear/here for you. It's unfortunate that you went through what you went through to get you here.
3 months is huge keep it up.