The love of my life for 20+ years is a

The love of my life for 20+ years is a alcoholic.

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Is that right? Well as a probably I’ll conceived idea I’ll play your angel and demon.

Why do you stay with her?

Because she’s a salt of the earth soul and I love her.

Ok, but why do you continue to stay with her or worse yet, possibly enable her?

Because I LOVE her and know she can be a better person

Yes but what about you! What do you truly want?

I want a female companion who brings the best out of me while simultaneously feeding her own soul wo alcohol.

:neutral_face: are you telling a story?

There are so many amazing and talented females in this world who are eager to meet a man like me wo alcohol involved. A female counterpart should naturally bring out the best attributes of her mate.

Yes. It’s a true story of my relationship with my wife who suffers from alcoholism yet won’t get help.

“The woman I married cannot be the source of my happiness or sorrow. The gift of life is personally mine - as her life belongs to her- to enjoy or destroy, as each of us wishes”

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Matt got it right. Thank you.!!!!!!!!!!.:dromedary_camel:

Asteroid… man i have seen what this demon does to those who are not addicts. A good friend has been going through it for years. He had no where to turn, so he asked and confided in me. ALANON… he has been actively working his own program while watching his partner relapse several times. But HE is happy and now has the coping skills needed to live and continue to love his addict partner (who has since gotten sober). You can not live for someone no matter how you feel about them. You need to live for yourself, and hope they want to join in your journey. Good luck man.