The of recovery offers hope. All you have to bring with you is the desire to stop drinking and the willingness to try this new way of life.
From time to time we wonder if we're "doing it right" in recovery. Are we attending enough meetings? Are we using our sponsor, or working the steps, or speaking, or reading, or living the "right" way? We value the fellowship of recovering alcoholics--we don't know what we'd do without it. What if the way we're practicing our program is "wrong"? Does that make us "bad" recovery members?
We can settle our insecurities by reviewing our Third tradition, which assures us that "the only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking." There aren't any rules that say we've got to attend this many meetings or these particular meetings, or work the "steps" this way at this pace, or live our lives to suit these people in order to remain recovery members in good standing.
It's true that, if we want the kind of recovery we see in members we respect, we'll want to practice the kind of program that's made their recovery possible. But recovery is a fellowship of freedom; we work the program the best way for us, not for someone else. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking.
Just for Today: I will look at the program I'm working in light of my own recovery. I will practice that program to the best of my ability.