The Work I Was Always Meant to Do

Someone said something to me recently that really stayed with me.

They told me…
what I’m doing at the shelter
is a lot like rehab.

And the more I sat with it,
the more it settled deep in my chest…
because they’re right.

I see them come in at their worst.
Scared. Shut down. Overstimulated.
Sometimes shaking. Sometimes withdrawn.
Sometimes just… tired.

And I recognize that place.
Because I’ve been there too.

So we slow things down.
We create safety.
We build trust… gently, patiently, over time.

Not forcing.
Not rushing.
Just steady love and consistency.

And little by little…
they soften.
They open.
They start to believe the world might be safe again.

Then one day… the best day…
we don’t keep them.

We set them free
into a new life
with a family who will love them well.

And every time it happens,
it’s bittersweet and beautiful all at once.

Because healing was never meant to cage us.
It was meant to restore us
so we could live fully again.

I’m starting to understand…
this work isn’t random for me.

It’s purpose.
It’s reflection.
It’s recovery in motion.

And I’m so deeply grateful
to be trusted with broken things
while they remember
how to become whole again. :purple_heart:

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That's so heartwarming :ok_hand:

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Maxci,
Wow! Again!
Love this post too.
Keep it up!

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Thats beautiful. I just got fired on Monday. I was living with a sober girl from AA and because I felt like a low life. I mean i am on my knees tired of being whipped from something that happened in 2011 with nursing. People in nursing like to dig someone dug deeper into my license from HR. I put I had adhd a disability the lady asked me about it. I was fired. I do t care anymore who knows my past. I restored my license back from the state but I am still seen as a liability. Thats why I keep having to go home to my negative mother who is active alcoholic. I cant stay with that girl in AA but in a short period she taught me peace. I dont feel right staying there because I cant pay her. I left. When will this stop? I am 48 in 4 more days. The job has been a struggle every one else has their own homes. I am still fighting like it was 2011. I just want pain to end with employment they fire me.

What a beautiful sentiment :heart:

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Yesss! You pour so much into your work, and the results are little miracles

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Thank you, Jamal. :purple_heart:

Thank you so much, Emm. I absolutely will! I’m glad you enjoyed it. :purple_heart:

Rachel, I’m really sorry you’re carrying so much right now. That sounds incredibly heavy. Losing work and feeling stuck in old chapters is painful.

I’m not equipped to give professional advice, but I do believe you deserve support that goes deeper than a comment section. Please consider reaching out to someone in your real world… a sponsor, counselor, or trusted support… so you’re not holding all of this alone.

Your past does not erase your worth. Keep taking one step at a time. :purple_heart:

Thank you, Reena. Our worlds can change just by changing the way we view them. I appreciate you :purple_heart:

Lee, that analogy you shared with me really stayed with me. It shifted how I see the work I do. You’re right… sometimes it really does feel like little miracles. Thank you for seeing that and for putting words to it in the first place. :purple_heart:

Sounds like you found your passion, congratulations. We are the best at what we do, especially if we've went through it as well.

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Absolutely, Crissy! Thank you! :purple_heart:

You're a inspiration to me! Keep it up! 🫂 :hugs: :open_hands: