There are other things making it hard to stay sober

There are other things making it hard to stay sober. My sponsor knows, but i feel like I’m repeatedly bombarding her with the same things. BTW, still trying to get over my ex-gf.

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I can certainly identify with the feelings of frustration and disappointment when the same exterior stressors challenge my sobriety over and over. For me, I've been trying to focus on "if nothing changes, nothing changes," which I take to mean that I need to change my perspectives, surroundings, practices, etc because that's what I can control! Anyway, sorry for the rambling. You got this, Katy!

Totally get it...I'm quite sure my sponsor is tired of hearing all the garbage I'm dealing with regarding my psycho ex!! Hit me up if you want to talk. Sent you a friend request. I'm trying really hard to stay focused on my recovery and stay out of my head, but it's not easy. Hang in there!!

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Look at calling ur sponsor as helping her too. Get's ur sponsor out of own head. Another suggestion would be to make friends with the other women in recovery. This way you have other people to talk to.

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