I prefer not to ask fellow addicts the question "are you okay?" As most times.. we already know the answer.
"How are you fairing today?"
"Is your recovery going well?"
"How is your emotional regulation? Are you overwhelmed or feeling grounded?"
"Have you considered your feelings today and how to process them?"
These are all questions that can help an addict pause, and connect with themselves rather than invited an automated response.
I would love to know peoples thoughts on this!
God bless and congratulations on another 24 hours of sobriety 
what are you grateful for today