It has definitely been a hard few months but I am still sober and today is a big day!
End of December I found out that I’m pregnant! - we are beyond excited. I’m halfway through my pregnancy and eventually will have to tell my narcissistic mother which I’ve been struggling with because this is a wonderful thing and I know I wont get the reaction from her I’m hoping for… it’s been very difficult to deal with that and having to do it soon.. all I’ve wanted was a drink to escape my own mind and anxiety about it but this child is such a beautiful sign to stay sober and alert. All I want is for my babies to be happy, healthy.. and I want to be healthy for them and be able to remember our time together..
today I find out the gender!
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Congratulations on two fronts! Sobriety and a baby!
Congrats on both!!
Congratulations and man you are purely amazing and inspiring. Keep being awesome
Your crushing it!, keep up the great work
Sober cobra congrats
Congratulations on both sobriety and the baby. Can I suggest a way to deal with mom? Get in your mind that if she responds with anything other than joy, you end the conversation until she figures out her narcissistic mindset will not be fed by you. Cut her off if need be. You and your baby is all that matters now.
Thank God you don’t need her approval Amen 
. Give thanks you are doubly blessed.
Nice work
Awesome.
Congratulations that’s awesome