Today my ex husband after 4 years of being separated wanted to hash out why we separated!!! He never wanted to talk about it in the last 4 years !! Why now !! Ugh I have 16 days sober today … I haven’t responded because he’s a narcissist anyway!! But so irritating!!! Had to vent !! Thanks
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How frustrating 
Have you heard of Dr. Ramani? (Durvasula) you should check out her YouTube channel. She is very knowledgeable when it comes to dealing with narcissist
Sad part of a person getting sober in a relationship is they don’t last. It’s like you’ve lived with a stranger once sobriety takes a hold. A lot of couples who used together don’t stay together once sobriety takes root. Just keep sobriety front and center and all will work it’s way out. A new beginning is what you need now and the past needs to be just that, the past. Good luck and stay strong.