Your sobriety comes first above all else! You know what to do!!
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Unfortunately it took me 5 years and two different toxic exes to finally realize I got to do this on my own...we were just enabling each other and I was just as much a toxic ex as they were.
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Yes I am dealing with my girl I got sober she had our son and she got in trouble with DCF now I have sole custody and I have been sober for a while but she calls
me all times of the night accusing me of cheating and sending me crazy texts saying I am a scumbag but I am just talking care of our son and staying sober . I try to get her to understand that I am just trying to give our son the attention he needs but she is so hard to deal with and stresses me out I finally had to block her . Hopefully it’s the right decision .
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Abby, I don't know you but girl you need to burn that bridge immediately and don't look back. That is some gaslighting bull$hit right there and it's abusive. You're onto better things now. Lean into that.
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Just go, love yourself. Let go of that rope! Don’t engage, don’t respond, not your circus, not your monkeys!
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Amen
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Yes sweetheart sometimes you have to do that! Totally understand
Thanks for advice I definitely been working hard on cutting the chord every body say the same thing
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People who have relationships with the alcoholic our addict
I can say that I am so happy now that I left him after so many years than I've ever been before. We both drank every single day and argued every day. I realized 59 days ago that I'm tired of living this way. I stopped drinking but the verbal abuse continued. I cut all ties with him a month ago and it has felt like an entire load has left my body. The house even feels lighter. Cutting all ties has been the best decision in my life. You should as well. It may be hard in the beginning but in the long run, you will be much happier 