Is it better to leave them while in recovery? Especially if they’re an alcoholic. I’ve noticed now that I’m sober how drinking controls him. Tonight he told me I probably relapsed because that’s who I am. am proud to say I did not and I am staying strong. I think it’s best to leave them…..
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Looks like recovery would be easier carrying less dead weight…
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Absolutely leave them.
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Good for you. If it’s a threat to your sobriety then leaving is best for you.
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Easy answer. I think you already know what to do.
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I just can't see how they do any good. Maybe if they get into recovery for 6 months or something. First things first. You take care of you.
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girl that’s not okay !!! don’t take that disrespect lightly. That is not cool nor is it supportive!!!! 
dump his azz
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When we have relationships with practicing alcoholic/ addicts I suggest Al-anon meetings for you
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Amen!
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Just walk away from people like that.
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RUN. it’s a threat to your sobriety. And will only bring you down.
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Yes definitely leave now. But do it w love & kindness if possible.
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It’s funny how people don’t like the person we become in Recovery.
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We MUST take care of ourselves FIRST. We cannot control the recovery of others.
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I know it’s a struggle to leave a relationship anytime especially when starting new in sobriety. I would get 30 days and relapse every single time. I finally left him and have almost 6 months sober. He wasn’t the issue but was a trigger and I feel a lot more confident in myself and my sobriety alone.
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If you have to ask if they're good for you, it seems you already know. The hole only gets deeper until you decide to put down the shovel.
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When entering sobriety we are told that we need to change our people, places and things.
He seems like a person who you will need to change your relationship with.
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It’s interesting to hear the responses… they definitely reflect the gamut of recovery survival as opposed to wisdom and discernment 
Right thoughts. Right words. Right action. ❤🔥:sunflower:
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Isn’t that Crazy?!
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Would love some sober friends! 
it’s crazy how I was writing this and then he messages me that. Definitely affirmed that I should leave him.
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