Trying to help myself

My wife called me crying on the way into work. I asked what's wrong. She said I am dreading another weekend with you drunk the whole weekend. I have to stop but dont have confidence I can.

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Good afternoon Joh have you tried to go to an AA meeting??And work for me I just celebrated 23 years clean and sober. That was the only thing that worked for me was going to an AA meeting or a N A meeting.

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Find a AA meeting near you and start going get numbers of men with a lot of quality time sober and call them

Thank you. I have not. I am agnostic and I believe or have heard that is faith based.

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Thank you for the support and advice.

No problem your welcome it's what our purpose is to stay sober and help others to recover

It is not, there’s even a chapter in the big book about agnostic.

Good to know. I will work up the courage to go.

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I watched a movie called the 13 th step it's about aa I'm 1yr 11 months sober I went to aa, it's just nooot for me. I go to DBT though and that's helped a lot. You could check it out I go online. You don't need to go to aa to be sober.

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Just read a quick article. Interesting. I'll have to dig a little deeper. "What's the one thing I am doing right now, and focus on that" resonated. Thank you

Consider medical detox and counseling. Definitely, there are other ways than AA. But, you have to want it. You can do it!!

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Thank you so much. I have got through detox ok in past attempts, but I have never reached out to anyone before. I recognize I need outside support. I appreciate the support Brian.

Yes it's good to reach out. You'll find that we, and a lot of other people, want you to be well and succeed.

7 month in, I looked back on my history on this app. I am still Alcohol free, but vigilant to stay that way. I have not been to a meeting. You helped. Thank you.

Still sober. Thank you for helping in those hard first days.

Still sober. Thank you for helping me early in the ongoing process.

The steps are a life hack. Your higher power could simply be the algorithm.