Two months in and not a drop. AA meetings almost everyday. Goals on the list to accomplish and all I want back is the girl I lost. How can win her back without being too pushy about it?
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In my experience I had to just get my shiiittt together and let the girl come back all on her own. I realized I couldn’t do it for anyone but myself. Getting happily sober was the best thing that I ever did. The “girl” became secondary.
Stay sober the same amount of time you dated and see what happens. Not sure how you hurt her when you drank, but 2 months of sobriety is an excellent start. Keep up the good work.
Your peace and sobriety have to come first or you risk losing it all again. Keep showing up for you. Others will see the change in you. It will take some time but it’ll go by before you know it. One day at a time.