So far so good I guess.
Still feeling lonely. It sucks to see your “friends” going out and you’re not invited. I guess it’s not all bad since all they do is go to bars anyway.
I need to make new friends.
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Do you go to AA meetings? You could make connections there if you do.
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I know those feelings all too well. I can tell you it will pass. When I was early in my sobriety my sponsor said to me “those that matter don’t mind and those that mind don’t matter” reach out to some of your friends and invite people hen out to coffee, dinner, a museum or zoo. Something that doesn’t involve the club life. Or even just a night in. You may be surprised at who is down to be there for you.
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One of the greatest gifts I have got from sobriety was the ability to be comfortable being alone. I learned to love myself instead of despising myself. While it’s good to be sociable, don’t be afraid to enjoy doing things for and by yourself once in a while.
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If you were to continue hanging w them they’d be toxic friends
You do!
Your friends don’t invite you anywhere anymore? Well then they were never really your friends. It’s time to get new friends.
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