I really appreciate connection, and when someone pays me recognition or a compliment, it hits home. Because my self worth is something I struggle with greatly.
The first message I got was as such from a boy, Complimenting my beauty, and that's fine. But then he ended by making a remark of how he didn't want to creep me out, how I must have a boyfriend but he needed to be honest.
The whole feel of the message was really unsettling to me. And I made my opinion on it very clear right away, because I invite no such connection or invasion of my space, or disregard of my dignity.
Compliments that are sincere do not come with side-face inquiries. Considering the environment, of vulnerability and fragility of characters here and of myself. I made sure to inform this person that the remarks he made were unacceptable.
I don't condone this kind of behavior, nor do I appreciate the approach due to this being a site for addicts supporting each other in recovery, not a site to foster romantic relationships.
The thing is, I have to remember that everyone is in their own phase of their healing journey, and not everyone has the perspective that I do when it comes to romantic interaction in early recovery.
With that said, I will try to keep a perspective of compassion and understanding, and to remember that we are all here, healing, recovering and learning all in our own way and our own pace.
I am glad for the opportunity to set a boundary for my self-worth and my personal space. And the opportunity it presented me for growth. I believe there is opportunity and lessons in every day and interaction. I am happy for the chance to receive it.
Good morning to you all, and god bless.
I am grateful to be part of this community,
With love and support, from Beau 
. The only words that come to mind are “Do Better” and remember where you are and what the focus is on…
