We are all here to share our pain/joy and feel connected with others in recovery. It makes me feel extremely sad when i see people judging others and using the steps and traditions as “weapons” to justify a negative opinion towards someome struggling. This is absolutely not okay. If you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing. Its so simple. Recovery is not a game. It is life or death. The newcomer is the most important person. Be careful with how you choose to interaction with others. Words cause harm on this app.