When we post our problems and issues on this forum, we are reaching out for help and solutions to our issues. When others respond to our posts, 99% of the time others give feedback to those issues to give a healing hand. Not to judge or confront. Sobriety is a “WE” program. WE stay sober. ME uses. So when you post something you need help with or want understanding about, please take what others respond with a grain of salt. You may not agree with them. You may not like what they say. Yet, we are only doing the best we can to give each other a helping hand. Please understand you may not like what you see from others. They, we, are only trying to help. Not to put each other down or diminish their experience. We all come from different backgrounds. We all are flawed. We are addicts. Not in anyway always right or better than each other. WE need each other on this path to a new life. So please, be kind to each other and stop thinking others are trying to put you down or belittle you. When you post a problem or issue in the public, understand the way others respond may not agree with what you want to hear. Yet, it’s out of kindness wanting to help that post we give feedback too.
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