What do you do when you start missing someone that is NOT good for you AT ALL. Idk why but I woke up this morning missing my daughters dad. We were together for 10 years. He’s the one who introduced me to the lifestyle & was extremely abusive in so many ways. I have no intention on ever being with him again, but for some reason I woke up missing him & I can’t shake the feeling…
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Cassie, I know how you feel. I miss my toxic ex sometimes but have to remember why we can not be together. I re direct my mind and maybe do some self care. Hope this helps
I don’t have the answer but I wanted you to know you’re not alone to feel this way
Feelings will pass. He's not worth your sobriety and serenity. I got back with my ex last year and it resulted in a relapse. I'm back on track now, but it definitely wasn't worth it.
I know exactly how you feel. Me and my ex broke up last year and she was the one telling me for a while I needed help. I miss her a lot but we were very toxic together. Every time I reached out to her before I got sober resulted in me getting extremely wasted. Now when I do start to miss her I talk to my sober friends and they take me out to go bowling or something. And just like when I want to drink or get high then I talk about it the thought passes. So when you do feel that way reach out to someone the thought will pass