July 10 I owned up to needing help for alcoholism. Enrolled in a 12 step program and have been working it diligently since. Mid August my wife of 31 years tells me she’s done and filing for divorce.
In the middle of working the program -I get a “you’re doing great in AA and making changes- and I’m doing horrible-but I still want a divorce”
Horrible predicament I’ve gotten myself into and really need some forgiveness and a willingness to work on our marriage instead of bailing out. Refusal to go to counseling or to try separating for a while. Just hardline to divorce.
