I just want to stop....why does everything I touch go bad?i just want to be happy and healthy. I want to mend relationships with family and let go of ppl who just use me and don't really care about me.why do i hang on to ppl i know are no good. Today I'm greatful .or I'm trying to be. God give me strength to hold on to do ur will not mine i have no idea how to not only stop hurting myself but the ppl who matter most to me. I don't want to be in my head and I just want to stop this craziness. I'm tierd jesus take the wheel.....
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When I'm feeling and going through what you are at this time I think about how I get there who put me there it's no more why me we got to make sure we know who we are love you more that's the only way find out what motivates you find out what feels your tank will feel your heart read more and right
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Jacque... The cycle stops when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired or when you have the willingness to go to any length for it.
Why does everything you touch go bad? Are you still drinking and using?
In order to be happy and healthy you need to stop doing the things you've been doing that are unhealthy for you.
Mend the relationship with yourself first before you start mending with others.
Releasing the toxic people in your life is a good start. Ditch the losers and hang with the winners.
Be grateful for today. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery all you have is today.
God will give you the strength as long as you get out of your way.
I'm here/hear for you.
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Remember, everything didn’t go to pot immediately either. It won’t all get fixed overnight. One day at a time. Doing the next right thing. Proving to those you’ve hurt that you are changed. Releasing those who use you, hurt you, etc. is not easy, but it is doable. If possible, physically distancing yourself from those people is a good place to start. You’re going to have some successes, and you’re going to have some failures. Celebrate the successes but maintain the humility, and don’t beat yourself up or shame yourself for the failures.
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I can't speak for you but I heard that if we have certain attachment styles we can end up holding onto people who aren't good for us. We gotta work on our attachment styles and talk through the things that formed that attachment. We inherently put up with what we think that we deserve subconsciously. It's a hard thing thing to work through.
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